Jiu-Jitsu is fantastic for kids - it’s not only a way to stay active but also a fun tool for teaching important life skills like discipline, respect, and resilience.
As parents, your support is key in your child’s Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ) journey; however, how you offer that support can make a big difference in their experience.
In this blog, we’ll cover a few do’s and don’ts that will impact your child’s training.
The Benefits of BJJ for Kids
BJJ is more than a physical activity; it’s a tool for personal development. It teaches kids to set goals, work in teams, and handle challenges - skills that come in handy in school and life in general.
Why Parents Should Avoid Coaching During Class
While it’s tempting to want to help your child during class (especially if you notice they are not fully engaged), it’s important to step back and avoid this reaction. Here’s why:
Respect for the Coach’s Expertise: BJJ instructors are trained to teach Jiu-Jitsu students with varying learning styles and abilities. They know how to deliver lessons that are age-appropriate and engaging. Your trust in their expertise allows your child to view the instructor as a respected authority figure.
Fostering Independence: Part of learning BJJ involves making mistakes and finding solutions to challenges. If parents jump in too quickly, kids might miss out on valuable lessons that come from working through the tough parts on their own.
Minimizing Distractions: Children often behave differently when they know their parents are watching them. Keeping a low profile helps them focus on learning rather than performing.
Why We Discourage Filming During Class
Filming during class is discouraged for several reasons:
Privacy concerns: Classes are a private space where children and other parents may not feel comfortable being filmed.
Focus on the Now: We want students - and parents - to focus on the present moment. Watching through a lens can detract from being fully present and engaged during the lesson.
Pressure-Free Environment: Knowing they are being recorded can place undue pressure on children, affecting their natural learning and performance.
Supportive Actions Parents Can Take Outside of Class
Supporting your child’s Jiu-Jitsu journey doesn’t just happen when they are at the academy. Here’s what you can do at home to optimize your child’s experience:
Encourage Practice at Home: If you weren’t able to be there for class, it’s helpful to ask your child to teach you what they learned. This not only helps them review and be engaged with the learning process but also makes BJJ a fun family activity.
Discuss Their Progress: Show interest in their lessons by asking questions about what they learned and what they enjoy the most. This helps keep kids excited and engaged.
Attend Class and Events Regularly: While it may be impossible for some to attend every class, try to be there for most of them along with special events like competitions. Your presence means a lot and shows you’re proud of and support their efforts.
Wrapping It Up
Being involved in your child’s BJJ Journey is essential. However, just like in BJJ, the approach matters.
By understanding your role, creating a supportive learning environment, and being there for them in and out of class, you’re helping to shape their experience positively.
Ready to See BJJ in Action?
If BJJ sounds like something your child would love, why not bring them in for a trial class? It’s a great opportunity for them to experience the fun and benefits of BJJ firsthand.
Join us and discover how BJJ can have a positive impact on your child’s life.
We can’t wait to meet you!